Safety & guidelines

Reporting, blocking and unmatching are free for everyone and always will be.

Before a first date

Meet somewhere public and busy.
Tell someone you trust where you will be.
Arrange your own transport, there and back.
Never send money to someone you have not met.

Community guidelines

Be a real person
One account, your own recent photos, your real age. Impersonation gets removed.
No money, ever
Nobody on PairAI should ask you for money, gift cards or crypto. Report it immediately.
Consent is the whole thing
No unsolicited explicit content. No pressure. 'No' ends the conversation.
No harassment or hate
Slurs, threats and repeated contact after an unmatch are permanent removals.
Adults only
PairAI is strictly 18+. Suspected minors are reported and removed.

What our AI will not do

Compatibility percentages are estimates from what people choose to share. Our matchmaker cannot know anyone's intentions, cannot vouch for anyone's safety, and will never write you something manipulative or deceptive. Your interview answers and coach conversations are private to you.

If something goes wrong

Use Report on any profile or conversation. Blocking is instant and mutual: they disappear from your feed and you from theirs. If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first.